Lawyer by Day, Restaurant Owner by Night: The Story of Miss Shirley’s | Carling Lee

What happens when you trade misdemeanor court and real estate closings for woks, dumplings, and working alongside traditional parents?

 

This week we're talking with Carling Lee, co-founder of New Orleans hotspot Miss Shirley’s on Magazine Street, as she joins the show to break down her wildly unconventional path.

 

Carling spent her childhood washing glasses on top of soy sauce buckets, worked her way through law school, handled cases in the DA’s office, and thrived in the fast-paced world of title law. But when her parents sold their 44-year family restaurant, she felt the pull back to the hospitality world she tried to outrun.

 

Now, four years into running Miss Shirley's, Carling opens up about the raw reality of operating a culinary sensation:

🥢 Running from parish court straight into the dining room to bus tables in heels

🥢 The culture shock of going from restaurant hustle to sitting still in law school

🥢 How to balance traditional family hierarchy with modern business strategy (and why "letting ideas fail" works)

🥢 Streamlining massive menus into rotating specials to keep food fresh and chefs sane

🥢 The power of strong networks and the behind-the-scenes women reshaping city landscapes

 

If you’ve ever felt torn between a safe corporate track and a family passion—or tried to convince stubborn parents to see your point of view—this conversation is for you.

 

💭 Drop a comment: What’s the hardest part of working with family? Do you think you could you ever go into business with your parents?👇

 

TIMESTAMPS:

00:03 - Introduction

00:25 - Carling Lee of Miss Shirley’s

00:47 - Growing Up in the Family Restaurant Business

06:07 - Starting in the DA’s Office & Juvenile Court

06:53 - Transitioning from Prosecution to Real Estate Title

08:01 - Law School Culture vs. Restaurant Work Ethic

08:44 - Family Retirement & Selling the Original Restaurant

09:37 - Running Tables in Court Clothes

10:18 - Losing the Home Base & Hosting at Home

19:36 - Miss Shirley’s Four Years In

20:36 - Self-Taught Cooking & Developing a Critical Palate

21:41 - The Challenge of Opening a Business with Parents

23:19 - Business Strategy: Planting Seeds & Consistent Follow-Through

39:07 - Scaling Up & Possibility of Bringing Local Products to Retail

40:43 - The Power of a Strong Women's Support Network

41:57 - Behind-the-Scenes Movers: Land Use & City Development

43:22 - Closing Remarks and Outro

 

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